Scripture does not use the term, but the instruction to address a grievance directly speaks against disappearing. The exception most would grant is where contact itself is unsafe.

Christians read it differently

Is it a sin to ignore someone?

Q: Is the silent treatment a sin?

Using silence to punish is a form of contempt, which the New Testament condemns. The behaviour, rather than the quiet itself, is what is being named.

Q: Is it wrong to go no contact with family?

No text forbids it, and Proverbs counsels distance from destructive people. Most pastoral counsel treats it as legitimate where there is real harm, and asks whether the door is genuinely closed or only shut for now.

Q: What if they will not listen?

Matthew 18 anticipates that and describes further steps. Paul's 'if it be possible' assumes some situations do not resolve, which is a relief rather than a loophole.

Silence can be self-protection or a weapon, and Scripture knows both

A door left slightly ajar with light falling through, and one empty chair beside it.

In short

No passage addresses this directly. Scripture asks for peace where it is possible and for grievances to be taken to the person rather than around them, which speaks against the silent treatment. It also records people who withdrew from harm, and treats that as wisdom rather than failure.

What the text says

Matthew 18:15

Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.

The instruction rules out both easy options at once: saying nothing, and saying it to everyone except him. What it asks for is the hardest and shortest route.

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Often brought inRomans 12:18

If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.

Two conditions are attached - if possible, and as far as it depends on you. Paul does not assume peace is always achievable, which is unusually realistic.

The counterweightProverbs 22:24

Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:

Proverbs advises against keeping company with an angry person. Some distance is prescribed rather than merely permitted.

What Christians agree on

Using silence to punish someone is a form of contempt, and taking a grievance to everyone except the person is condemned throughout Scripture. Equally, no tradition requires you to stay within reach of someone who harms you.

Where they disagree

Those who stress the obligation to address it

Withdrawal without a word leaves the other person unable to repent or explain. Matthew 18 assumes a conversation, and skipping it fails them.

Matthew 18:15

Those who recognise protective distance

Scripture repeatedly counsels avoiding people who do harm. Where the relationship is dangerous, distance is the wise course and not a failure of love.

Proverbs 22:24

Those who focus on intent

The same silence can be either. Withdrawal to heal is not the silent treatment; withdrawal to make someone suffer is, and only you know which you are doing.

Ephesians 4:26

Questions worth asking

Am I protecting myself, or making them pay?
Have I actually told them what is wrong, in words, once?
If they changed, is there a route back, or have I closed it for good?

The distinction Scripture keeps drawing is between distance that protects and silence that punishes. They can look identical from outside, and you are usually the only person who knows which one this is.