Christians read it differently

Is it a sin to use birth control?

A dispute that is genuinely doctrinal, not a matter of preference

A pair of cupped hands holding a single seed, beside an open unplanted furrow.

In short

No passage addresses contraception. Catholic teaching holds that every sexual act must remain open to life and permits only natural methods; most Protestant and Orthodox practice permits contraception within marriage. This is a real doctrinal division reached by reasoning, not a verse either side is ignoring.

What the text says

Genesis 38:9

And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother.

The verse most often brought to this question, and the reason it gives is inheritance rather than method. That single ambiguity is where the traditions part.

Often brought inPsalms 127:3

Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.

Children as reward and inheritance. It sets the posture every tradition starts from, whatever it concludes about method.

The counterweight1 Corinthians 7:5

Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

Paul discusses abstaining within marriage by mutual consent for a time. He treats the couple's decisions about their own intimacy as theirs to make, within limits.

What Christians agree on

Children are a good, and marriage is not meant to be closed against them in principle. Nobody in this argument is arguing that children are a burden or that fertility is a defect.

Where they disagree

Catholic teaching

Every sexual act must remain open to life. Natural family planning is permitted because it does not sever the act from its meaning; artificial contraception does.

Genesis 38:10

Most Protestant teaching

Scripture does not address the question, and the Onan passage concerns a family duty. Spacing or limiting children responsibly is a matter for the couple's judgement.

1 Corinthians 7:5

Orthodox practice

Varies by jurisdiction and confessor. Contraception within marriage is widely permitted for serious reasons, with abortifacient methods excluded, and the decision made with a spiritual father.

Psalms 127:3

Questions worth asking

  • Does my tradition actually teach what I assume, or have I inherited a summary?
  • Have my spouse and I discussed this as a shared decision?
  • Is the method in question contraceptive or potentially abortifacient, and do I know the difference?

This is one of the places where two thoughtful Christians reach opposite conclusions from the same texts, and the argument is doctrinal rather than a matter of one side being lax. Knowing why your own tradition holds what it holds is worth more than a verdict from a page like this one.

Also relevant

Genesis 1:28 · 1 Corinthians 7:5 · Malachi 2:15

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