
Diotrephes The One Who Loved to Be First
About Diotrephes
Diotrephes is mentioned only in 3 John as a negative example of church leadership. He loved to have the preeminence, rejected the apostle John's authority, spread malicious gossip about John and other leaders, refused to welcome traveling missionaries, and even expelled from the church those who did welcome them. His behavior illustrates the dangers of pride, love of power, and self-promotion in church leadership.
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Spiritual Lessons from Diotrephes
Love for Preeminence
Diotrephes 'loved to have the preeminence.' His desire to be first led him to reject apostolic authority, slander leaders, and excommunicate godly people. Love of position corrupts ministry and harms the church.
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